Tuesday, March 31, 2026

Women's History Month

 


Frida Kahlo was born on July 6, 1907, in Coyoacán, on the outskirts of Mexico City — though she would later claim she was born in 1910, so people would associate her directly with the Mexican Revolution. Even her birth year was a self-portrait. She contracted polio at six, which left her right leg permanently thinner than her left. 

She grew up during the Revolution, with gunfire in the streets of her neighborhood. By 1922, she was one of only 35 girls admitted to the elite National Preparatory School in Mexico City, out of 2,000 students. She planned to study medicine. 

Then came September 17, 1925. She was eighteen. She and her boyfriend, Alejandro Gómez Arias, boarded a bus home from school. She had missed an earlier one because she couldn't find her umbrella. The bus collided with an electric streetcar. A steel handrail tore loose and impaled her through the abdomen — entering at the left hip and exiting through her genitals. Her spine was broken in three places. Her pelvis fractured in three places. Her collarbone broke. Two ribs broke. Her right leg suffered eleven fractures. Her right foot was crushed. Her left shoulder was dislocated. A fellow passenger had been carrying a packet of powdered gold, which burst in the crash and covered her naked, bleeding body. Her boyfriend, barely injured, found her and heard her scream when another passenger pulled the handrail out of her body. Doctors didn't expect her to survive the first surgery. 

She survived more than thirty. She was encased in a full-body plaster cast. She was bedridden for months, then years, then — in varying degrees — for the rest of her life. Her parents gave her paintbrushes and oils and had a special easel built so she could paint lying down. Her mother hung a mirror from the canopy above her bed. 

And so Frida Kahlo began painting self-portraits — not from artistic philosophy but from physical constraint. The mirror above her bed was the only subject available. "I paint myself because I am so often alone," she said, "and because I am the subject I know best." She created 143 paintings in her lifetime. Fifty-five were self-portraits. 

In 1928, she brought her work to Diego Rivera — Mexico's most famous muralist, twenty-one years her senior. They married in 1929. Her parents called it "the marriage between an elephant and a dove." Kahlo later said: "There have been two great accidents in my life. One was the trolley, the other was Diego. Diego was by far the worst." Their marriage was a public spectacle of mutual genius, mutual infidelity, and mutual destruction. Rivera had an affair with Kahlo's younger sister Cristina. Kahlo had affairs with men and women — including Leon Trotsky, the exiled Russian revolutionary, who lived in the Blue House under Kahlo and Rivera's protection before being assassinated nearby. 

They divorced in 1939. They remarried in 1940.Meanwhile, Kahlo was painting. Her work fused Mexican folk art, pre-Columbian imagery, and unflinching autobiography into something that had no precedent. She painted miscarriages, surgical scars, broken spines, her body split open. André Breton called her a surrealist. She rejected the label: "I never painted dreams. I painted my own reality." 

In 1939, the Louvre purchased one of her paintings — making her the first twentieth-century Mexican artist in their collection. But during her lifetime, she was known primarily as Rivera's wife. In 1953, her right leg was amputated below the knee due to gangrene. She wrote in her diary: "Feet, what do I need them for, if I have wings to fly." 

She died on July 13, 1954, seven days after her forty-seventh birthday. The official cause was pulmonary embolism. Some biographers believe it was suicide. Her final diary entry read: "I hope the exit is joyful — and I hope never to return." 

For a generation after her death, her legacy went into eclipse. Rivera sold most of his and her remaining work to his patron, and the art world moved on. Then, in the late 1960s and 1970s, Chicana artists along the U.S.-Mexico border rediscovered her — recognizing in her work a fierce articulation of hybrid identity, cultural pride, and female experience.

 In 1983, art historian Hayden Herrera published a biography that became an international bestseller, and the phenomenon now known as "Fridamania"  began. In 1984, Mexico declared her works national cultural heritage. In 2002, Salma Hayek starred in an Oscar-winning film about her life. Her self-portrait The Dream sold at auction for $54.7 million — the most expensive work by a female artist ever sold 
.Today her face appears on currency, tote bags, murals, and museum walls on every continent. The Blue House in Coyoacán — where she was raised, where she painted, where Trotsky slept, where she died — draws more visitors than any other museum in Mexico. 

She was a Communist, a bisexual icon, a disabled woman who painted her own pain with colors so bright they burned. She made 143 paintings. The world couldn't look away from any of them. All because on a rainy afternoon in 1925, an eighteen-year-old girl couldn't find her umbrella and took the next bus instead

Tuesday Treasures - 1995 Hawaii

 March 2026 

So last week I mistakenly wrote that we first went to Hawaii in 1999 and then we went in 2001?? with family and couldn't find the pictures (which then sent me into a panic). Well, I found them, hiding in plain sight! And no, we didn't go with family!!

At the time John was travelling across the country for two weeks a month, so he really racked up the frequent flyer points, as at that time, he was allowed to fly business class.

So we decided to use them to go to Hawaii. We did use our timeshare.

HONOLULU OAHU

Perfect shot of Diamond Head from the plane.




Chinaman's Hat


Pearl Harbour - we would have to wait until 2005 as it was shut down on this visit.

The US government did not technically "run out of money" in the sense of having zero assets, but it did shut down twice between November 1995 and January 1996 due to a budget impasse between Democratic President Bill Clinton and the Republican-controlled Congress. 

The disputes over funding for education, the environment, and public health resulted in two major shutdowns: 
November 14–19, 1995 (5 days): Triggered when President Clinton vetoed a spending bill, leading to the furlough of about 800,000 workers.




 BIG ISLAND











Perched on a hill, overlooking the historic panorama of Kealakekua Bay and the Pu’uhonua o Honaunau National Park known as “A Place of Refuge,” Saint Benedict Church, better known as The Painted Church. This Roman Catholic Church once stood at the shore of Honaunau and at that time was St. Francis Regis Chapel. In the 1880’s the hot tropical climate motivated the local community to move further up onto the rise of Mauna Loa where the climate was temperate with productive soil.




In 1995, Kīlauea on the Big Island continued its12-year-long east rift zone eruption, characterized by steady lava flows, acidic plumes from ocean entries, and significant bench collapses into the sea. The Puʻu ʻŌʻō-Kupaianaha eruption was active throughout the year, with a brief pause in mid-December 1995.







MAUI
This was probably the first time that I had ahi tuna, funny story there!
We ordered tuna and when it came we said, it's raw! The server, it is supposed to be!! It became my favourite dish to order whenever I can! I almost had it yesterday (24/03/26).

I remember we also ate at our first Cheeseburger in Paradise!









We drove the Road to Hana. And again, because of the government shutdown we got to the end and had to turn around.




This might have been our first Planet Hollywood.






Women's History Month

 


Morning Reflections

 


Monday, March 30, 2026

Women's History Month

 


They were the most famous babies in the world—put on display like zoo animals. When they finally investigated their trust fund decades later, the government claimed every document had been "accidentally" burned.

May 28, 1934. Corbeil, Ontario. A tiny farmhouse in the middle of nowhere.
Elzire Dionne, 25 years old, went into labor two months early. She already had five children. She thought she was having twins.
Dr. Allan Roy Dafoe and two midwives delivered the babies by the warmth of a wood stove. First one. Then two. Three. Four. Five.
Five identical girls. Born two months premature. Combined weight: 13 pounds, 6 ounces. Small enough to hold in one hand.
Yvonne. Annette. Cécile. Émilie. Marie.

No one expected them to survive. The odds of naturally conceiving identical quintuplets? 1 in 57 million. The odds they'd all live past infancy? Basically impossible.
But they did.

And that's when everything went wrong.
Within hours, reporters and photographers descended on the Dionne farmhouse. The babies were lifted from their heated blankets and positioned next to their exhausted mother for photos. The medical miracle became international news.
The Dionne quintuplets—the first quintuplets in recorded history to survive infancy—became the biggest sensation of the 1930s.

And the Ontario government saw dollar signs.
At first, it was the father, Oliva Dionne, who made the questionable decision. Desperate to feed ten children during the Great Depression, he signed a contract to display the babies at the Chicago World's Fair. He was offered $100 upfront and $250 weekly.

He cancelled the contract days later.
But the damage was done. The government had its excuse.
On March 21, 1935, the Ontario government passed the Dionne Quintuplets' Guardianship Act, which made the five girls wards of the Crown until age 18.
The stated reason? To "protect them from exploitation."
The reality? The government built a human zoo.
They constructed "Quintland"—a specially designed hospital compound with an outdoor playground surrounded by one-way screens. Tourists could watch the quintuplets play two or three times a day, observing them like animals at an exhibit.
Three million people visited Quintland between 1934 and 1943. At the peak, 3,000 visitors per day passed through.
Admission was free. But the surrounding souvenir industry generated millions. Postcards. Dishes. Dionne dolls (still traded today). Even "fertility stones" from the family farm sold for 50 cents each.

The quintuplets' faces appeared in advertisements for Palmolive soap, Colgate toothpaste, Quaker Oats, Karo syrup, Lysol disinfectant. Hollywood made three movies about them in the 1930s—all with happy endings.
The girls themselves lived behind a seven-foot barbed-wire fence. Constantly tested. Constantly studied. Every mood, every meal, every bowel movement meticulously recorded "for science."
Their parents lived across the street but felt unwelcome at Quintland. "We didn't know each other," Cécile later said.
By 1938, the quintuplets were worth an estimated $500 million to the Province of Ontario—the equivalent of billions today. They generated as much as $25 million annually in tourism revenue.
A trust fund was created to hold their earnings. By 1941, when the girls were 7, it contained $1 million.

The girls were finally returned to their parents in November 1943, at age 9. But the family reunion was a disaster. The quintuplets described their new home—a 19-room mansion built with trust fund money—as "the saddest home we ever knew."
They felt like strangers among their own siblings. Later, in their 1997 book Family Secrets, three of the sisters alleged their father sexually abused them during car rides after their return. They told their school chaplain. His advice? "Wear a thick coat when you go for car rides."

At 18, the sisters left home and broke off nearly all contact with their family.
Émilie became a nun. She died in 1954 at age 20 from an epileptic seizure.
Marie died in 1970 at age 35 from what was believed to be a blood clot in the brain.

When the surviving sisters turned 21 in 1955, they became eligible to receive their trust fund.
They were told $800,000 remained.
Where did the rest go? "Operations costs" for Quintland. Staff salaries. Policing. Even toilet paper for the tourists who came to gawk at them.
Dr. Dafoe—the man who delivered them and became famous as their guardian—earned $200/month from the arrangement. Their own father received $100/month.

The girls themselves had been the show, but they got nothing.
The remaining money eventually disappeared. Three of the sisters married but divorced. Their sheltered upbringing left them unprepared for real life. Cécile said they had difficulty distinguishing a nickel from a quarter.

By the 1990s, when Annette, Cécile, and Yvonne reached their sixties, they were living together outside Montreal on a combined income of $746 per month.
The most famous babies in the world. The girls who'd generated millions for the Ontario government. Living in near-poverty.

That's when they decided to fight back.
In 1995, the three surviving sisters sued the Province of Ontario for $10 million as compensation for their lost childhood and stolen earnings.
The government gave no response.
So the sisters wrote a book. Family Secrets: The Dionne Quintuplets' Own Story. They detailed their traumatic upbringing. The exploitation. The alleged abuse. The stolen money.
Public pressure mounted.

Then Bertrand Langlois—Cécile's son—made a shocking discovery while investigating the trust fund:
Documents concerning the quintuplets from 1934 to 1937 had been destroyed. Burned.
Every record from the critical early years—when the government took custody, built Quintland, and began profiting from them—was gone.
Conveniently erased from history.

The government finally responded. Premier Mike Harris made an offer to the three surviving sisters:
$2,000 per month.
For women who'd made the Canadian government millions. For women whose childhoods had been stolen. For women who'd been displayed like zoo animals behind one-way screens for nine years.
$2,000 a month.
The sisters called it what it was: an insult.
They rejected the offer immediately and went to the press.

The backlash was swift. The Ontario government suffered a public relations nightmare. Headlines condemned them. Public opinion turned against Harris.
The government backpedaled. They offered $2 million.
The sisters refused.
They offered $3 million.
The sisters refused again.

Finally, in March 1998, the government agreed to a $4 million settlement (equivalent to $2.8 million USD). The deal included a full investigation and factual review of what happened to the trust fund, conducted by retired Ontario justice Gregory Evans.
Premier Mike Harris met with the sisters personally and issued an official apology on behalf of the government.
Through their lawyer, Clayton Ruby, the sisters released a statement:
"This will finally provide us with peace of mind—the peace that comes from being satisfied that justice is finally being carried out."

But before accepting the settlement, they'd done something else.
In November 1997, Bobbi and Kenny McCaughey of Iowa welcomed septuplets—the first surviving set of septuplets in the world. The media descended. Endorsement deals flooded in. The babies became instant celebrities.
The Dionne sisters saw history repeating itself.
So they wrote an open letter to the McCaugheys. It was published in Time magazine on December 1, 1997.
It wasn't congratulatory. It was a warning.
"We hope your children receive more respect than we did. Our lives have been ruined by the exploitation we suffered at the hands of the government of Ontario, our parents, the media and others. Multiple births should not be confused with entertainment, nor should they be an opportunity to sell products. Our lives have been ruined by the exploitation we suffered."
They urged the McCaugheys to raise their children in a normal environment, away from the spotlight, away from the cameras, away from the people who would try to profit from them.
The letter ended simply: "We sincerely hope you can give your children the love and attention they deserve."
The message was clear: Don't let what happened to us happen to your children.

Yvonne died of cancer in 2001 at age 66.
Cécile died on July 28, 2025, at age 91.
Annette died on December 24, 2025—at age 91.

She was the last surviving Dionne quintuplet. The last witness to one of the most shameful episodes in Canadian history.
Before she died, Annette and Cécile had continued speaking out about child exploitation in the digital age. In 2019, they warned about the dangers of "kidfluencers"—children whose parents profit from their social media presence.
The warning was the same: Don't exploit your children for profit. They deserve a childhood.

The Dionne sisters spent their lives trying to recover what was stolen from them. Money, yes—but more than that: their childhood. Their dignity. Their agency.
In 2018, the federal government of Canada finally declared the quintuplets' birth a National Historic Event.
Too little. Too late. But at least the truth is now part of the historical record.

The Dionne quintuplets were born against impossible odds. They survived when no quintuplets had survived before. They became the most famous babies in the world.
And they were robbed—by the very government that claimed to be protecting them.
When they finally demanded answers decades later, the government's response?
"Sorry, we burned all the records."
But the sisters didn't give up. They fought for 20 years. And in the end, they forced the people who profited from them to finally answer for it.
Justice, delayed. But justice, nonetheless.

Foto Tunes

March 2026 - Toronto ON


 These Boots Are Made for Walking


LAS VEGAS NV

"These Boots Are Made for Walkin'" is a hit song written by Lee Hazlewood and recorded by American singer Nancy Sinatra. It charted on January 22, 1966, and reached No. 1 in the United States Billboard Hot 100 and in the UK Singles Chart.

Subsequently, many cover versions of the song have been released in a range of styles: metal, pop, rock, punk rock, country, dance, and industrial. Among the more notable versions are the singles released by Megadeth, Billy Ray Cyrus and Jessica Simpson.


You keep saying you got something for me
Something you call love, but confess
You've been a messin' where you shouldn't have been a messin'
And now someone else is getting all your best

DINGLE IRELAND


These boots are made for walkin'
And that's just what they'll do
One of these days, these boots are gonna walk all over you
Yeah
ADELAIDE AUSTRALIA


You keep lyin' when you ought to be truthin'
You keep losin' when you ought to not bet
You keep samin' when you ought to be a changin'
Now what's right is right, but you ain't been right yet

TORONTO
 

These boots are made for walkin'
And that's just what they'll do
One of these days, these boots are gonna walk all over you

CARAGENA COLUMBIA

You keep playin' where you shouldn't be playin'
And you keep thinking that you'll never get burnt, ha
I've just found me a brand new box of matches, yeah
And what he knows you ain't had time to learn

ST.ANDREW'S NB


These boots are made for walkin'
And that's just what they'll do
One of these days, these boots are gonna walk all over you
Are you ready, boots?
Start walking


My boots on King St.



Morning Reflections

 


Women's History Month

  Frida Kahlo was born on July 6, 1907, in Coyoacán, on the outskirts of Mexico City — though she would later claim she was born in 1910, so...