Monday, March 23, 2026

Women's History Month

 


She began life by ending someone else's.
Not by choice — she was eleven days old. But Mary Wollstonecraft Godwin came into the world on August 30, 1797, and her mother — the great feminist philosopher Mary Wollstonecraft, who had recently written A Vindication of the Rights of Woman — never recovered from the birth.
The baby who would one day create the most enduring monster in literary history began her life in grief before she was old enough to know what grief was.
She grew up in her legendary mother's shadow, resented by a stepmother who couldn't bear looking at a girl who reminded everyone of the woman she'd replaced. Mary taught herself by candlelight, reading her mother's radical books in secret, visiting her grave to feel close to the woman she would never meet.
It was at that gravestone — her mother's — where she first met the man who would change everything.

In 1814, sixteen-year-old Mary encountered Percy Bysshe Shelley — a poet of blazing talent, magnetic presence, and one significant complication: he was married.
They fell in love anyway.
The scandal was swift and total. Percy left his wife. Mary's father — the celebrated progressive philosopher who had spent his career arguing for human freedom — disowned his own daughter for the disgrace. Society branded her a homewrecker and a fallen woman.
Mary and Percy left England together and never looked back.
But the losses followed them.
In February 1815, their first child — a premature baby girl — lived only days. Mary held her. Named her. Lost her. Wrote in her journal: "Dreamt that my little baby came to life again — that it had only been cold."
That sentence alone contains more human pain than most novels.

Summer 1816. Lake Geneva, Switzerland. The sky over Europe had turned strange and dark.
The previous year, the volcanic eruption of Mount Tambora in Indonesia had sent ash across the atmosphere, cooling temperatures worldwide. That summer became known as the Year Without a Summer — crops failed, skies darkened at noon, and rain fell for weeks without stopping.
Trapped inside the Villa Diodati with Percy, her stepsister Claire, the poet Lord Byron, and Byron's physician John Polidori, eighteen-year-old Mary listened to ghost stories read aloud by candlelight.
Then Byron issued his now-famous challenge: "We will each write a ghost story."
The others started. Most gave up.
Mary thought.
She had lost her mother before she could speak. She had buried a child. She had been abandoned by her father, condemned by society, and loved a man the world refused to accept. She understood, in her bones, what it meant to be brought into existence and then cast aside by the very person who created you.
What could be more terrifying, she thought, than a being made by someone who then fled from what they had made?
One night, she had a waking vision: "the pale student of unhallowed arts kneeling beside the thing he had put together." She saw it open its eyes. She saw the creator's horror at what he had done.
She picked up her pen.
Frankenstein; or, The Modern Prometheus had begun.

But even as she wrote it, reality delivered its darkest chapter yet.
In December 1816, Percy's abandoned wife Harriet — alone, despairing, pregnant — drowned herself in the Serpentine in London.
The news reached Mary and Percy like a stone through glass.
They married weeks later — not in celebration, but in grief and obligation, the shadow of Harriet's death falling across everything.
Frankenstein was published anonymously in 1818. It was an immediate sensation — terrifying, philosophical, unlike anything the reading public had encountered. Many assumed Percy had written it. The idea that an eighteen-year-old woman had invented something this intellectually formidable seemed impossible to them.
Mary said nothing and kept writing.
In Italy that same year, her daughter Clara died at one year old.
The following year, her son William died at three.
She had carried four children. She had buried three of them before her twenty-fourth birthday.
"I feel that I am not fit for anything," she wrote, "and therefore not fit to live."
Yet she lived. She kept writing. Because the writing was the only door that led anywhere but darkness.

Then came the worst morning of her life.
July 8, 1822. Percy went sailing on the Gulf of Spezia.
A storm came without warning.
His boat went down.
Ten days later, his body washed ashore. He was twenty-nine years old.
Mary was twenty-four. A widow. With one surviving son, no income, a society that still condemned her, and a father-in-law who offered financial support only if she surrendered her child.
She refused.
Instead, she did what no one expected of a woman in her position.
She worked.
She wrote novels, travel essays, short stories, biographical sketches. She edited and published Percy's complete poetry, fighting for decades to ensure his legacy survived — even as critics refused to believe she had written anything of value herself.
Her 1826 novel The Last Man — imagining a plague that destroys all of humanity — was decades ahead of its time, one of the earliest works of science fiction ever written. Critics dismissed it. History has since recognized it as visionary.
She wrote her way out of poverty and grief. She wrote her way into immortality. She wrote because it was the one thing the world could not take from her.

February 1, 1851. Mary Shelley died from a brain tumor. She was fifty-three years old.
When those who loved her opened her writing desk afterward, they found something that made them catch their breath.
Wrapped carefully in silk — preserved for twenty-nine years since the day his body was pulled from the shore — was Percy's heart. It had survived the flames of the beach pyre that claimed the rest of him. Tucked beside it were the final pages of his last poem.
She had carried it with her for nearly three decades.
Through poverty and prejudice and grief and the long labor of her career — she had carried it.

Frankenstein has never gone out of print since 1818.
It has been adapted into more than a hundred films. The story of a creature abandoned by its creator — desperate for love, condemned by its own existence — has never stopped resonating, because it has never stopped being true about the human condition.
Mary Shelley understood abandonment with a completeness very few writers ever have.
She understood what it felt like to be created and left behind. To love and lose. To be brilliant and dismissed. To carry grief so heavy it should have ended her — and to transform it, year after year, into something that outlives everything.
The monster she created was not born from imagination alone.
It was born from her life.
And every time someone reads about Frankenstein's creature crying out for a love it was never given — standing in the dark, asking why it was made only to be cast aside —
they are reading Mary Shelley's own question.
She never fully received the answer.
But she gave the rest of us the words to keep asking it.
And for that, she will never die.

Foto Tunes

 March 2026 - Toronto ON


Johnny Nash first recorded and released "I Can See Clearly Now" in 1972. The American singer-songwriter also wrote and produced the song, which became a smash hit that year. While covered by others, including Jimmy Cliff (1993), the original 1972 version is by Johnny Nash.




I can see clearly now, the rain is gone

HUE VIETNAM

I can see all obstacles in my way
HUE VIETNAM

Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
TORONTO

It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-shiny day
It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-shiny day

I think I can make it now, the pain is gone
All of the bad feelings have disappeared
TORONTO

Here is the rainbow I've been prayin' for
CALIFORNIA

It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-shiny day

Look all around, there's nothin' but blue skies
Look straight ahead, nothin' but blue skies
I can see clearly now, the rain is gone
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-shiny day
NEW MEXICO

It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-shiny day
Gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-shiny day
Oh, what a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-shiny day...
                                                                         PHUKET THAILAND

Morning Reflections

 


Monday Mural

  I'm linking up at Monday Mural

July 2025 - Toronto ON

Interesting! Every mural I have posted in 2025 was found in 2025, I didn't use any from my archives.

Inside Mother Tongue restaurant on Adelaide St.

Diogo Snow also know by his artist name D-Snow, is an artist born and raised in São Paulo Brazil who currently resides in Toronto. The artist started his career early in  his teens in Brazil with street art that grew into a passion. His art is a mix of urban with a  twist of modern. He uses a variety of materials to make his paintings stand out such as spray paint, acrylic, prints, leather, epoxies, and crystals.

Diogo Snow has also created murals inside Picasso Mansion in Miami, trending restaurants around the city like Santorini Estiatorio , The Kings Arms a statement art piece inside Vagabondo restaurant and also a tribute mural for Juice WRLD to name a few. Snow's work has been delivered to Neymar Jr, Ronaldinho, Megan Thee Stallion, Drake and Justin Bieber.






Sunday, March 22, 2026

Women's History Month

 


The law had a simple answer for Caroline Norton.

Your children belong to their father.

It didn't matter that she had borne them. Nursed them through illness. Read to them and taught them and shaped the people they were becoming. It didn't matter that her husband George Norton had been violent — documented, witnessed, undeniable. Under English common law in the 1830s, a father held absolute legal guardianship over his children. A mother, upon separation, held nothing. Not visiting rights. Not correspondence. Not even the legal right to know where her children had been taken.

Caroline Norton fled an abusive marriage in 1836 and discovered what the law thought of her love for her sons Fletcher, Brinsley, and William.

It thought nothing of it at all.

George Norton moved the boys to Scotland, to the home of a relative, and refused to tell Caroline where they were. She could not see them. Could not write to them. Could not reach them. She was their mother in every human sense and a legal stranger in every sense the courts recognized.

She could have retreated into private grief.

She chose public warfare instead.

Norton was a writer of considerable skill and an intellect that the drawing rooms of London had long underestimated to their cost. She turned both weapons on the legal system that had erased her. She published pamphlets that exposed with precise, documented clarity how English family law treated mothers — as temporary caregivers whose connection to their children existed only at a husband's sufferance, and evaporated the moment they stepped outside obedience.

"The Natural Claim of a Mother to the Custody of her Children" (1837).

"A Plain Letter to the Lord Chancellor on the Infant Custody Bill" (1839).

She did not write in the language of sentiment. She wrote in the language of law — its precedents, its contradictions, its consequences — and she made it impossible for anyone reading to pretend that what was happening to women like her was accidental or acceptable.

Her campaign, conducted in the face of personal devastation and public scrutiny, helped drive the passage of the Custody of Infants Act of 1839 — the first law in English history to limit a father's absolute custody rights, giving mothers the right to petition courts for access to children under seven, and custody of children under sixteen, provided their moral character was considered unblemished.

It was a landmark. It was genuinely historic.

And Caroline Norton could not use it.

Because her children were in Scotland. And Scotland was outside the Act's jurisdiction.

She continued fighting through the courts for years, winning limited access, losing it again, navigating the labyrinthine cruelty of a legal system that had been designed by men to manage women's grief rather than respect their rights.

In 1842, her youngest son William was thrown from a horse at his father's estate.

By the time Caroline was notified, it was too late.

She arrived to find him gone.

The woman who had changed English law so that mothers could keep their children buried the youngest of hers without having been given the chance to say goodbye — and without the law she herself had created being able to help her.


The Custody of Infants Act of 1839 was a beginning, not an ending. Full legal equality for mothers in custody matters would not arrive in England until the Guardianship of Infants Act 1925 — nearly ninety years later. Every step of that journey was built on the foundation that Caroline Norton laid with her pamphlets and her persistence and her refusal to let private suffering stay private.

She did not fight for a principle.

She fought because her sons existed, and the law told her that was not enough.

The law was wrong. She proved it.

And she paid a price for proving it that no retrospective recognition will ever fully account for.

Morning Reflections

 


Saturday, March 21, 2026

Twitter Beans Coffee

  Linking up with Marg at The Intrepid Reader

20 March 2026 - Toronto ON


SATURDAY

And it is cold out. John went to No Frills and now I'm happy that we have more vegetables, cabbage and turnip. And butter was only $5 so we added to our stockpile. Gotta grab sale items when you can.
While he was out I tidied the kitchen, emptied the dishwasher and the dryer and filled it up again.

SUNDAY

I made a pot of vegetable stock from the bag of vegetable bits and bobs, I was going to add the other freezer stock but decided that I could add the chicken bones from tonight's dinner instead.


MONDAY

A quick glance up and I caught this, it was gone in minutes. I really do have to make the effort one morning to go out by the lake to catch the sun rise. 


This random woman got on the elevator, on our floor, never saw her before, and she is showing us the cupcake she just received.


John spontaneously asked if we could go for Jersey Mike's subs for lunch. It is Spring Break!! Union Station was packed with suburbanites dragging tons of kids and pushing various modes of kiddie transit!! After scarfing down our subs, he asked what we should do. Knowing that most places would be packed, I suggested we check out the new subway line.

TTC Line 5 Eglinton (the Crosstown LRT) opened on Feb. 8, 2026, as a 19-km, 25-station line that finally connects east-west travel across Toronto. Despite being over 15 years in the making, the line surprises with its speed, underground depth, and modernized, though initially constrained, operations

We rode from Eglinton all the way to the Wend of the line at Kennedy and then back, with a layover at Eglinton. No major hiccups in our commute — though the stations are freezing cold.
Cheap day out, at $2.25 each.

Cookie cutter stations, mainly white. Click here for all the tantalizing facts about the line!


Eglinton Station: "Light from Within" by Rodney Lateral and Luis Withhoff—a large, mirrored tile panel inspired by underground gems.

I will go back and check out the other public art pieces.


Each station's signage is a riff on this.



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Old-fashioned cloth seats - I would prefer something easily cleaned! BTW a cleaner came on the car when we were waiting at Mount Dennis on the east bound train. I've only ever seen that done, at Broadview, on the streetcar.


Mount Dennis art.


Some sights along the way.


The Aga Khan Museum, we have yet to go there!


"Seated Bear With Friends" sculpture, a massive bronze statue of a female grizzly sitting on a chair, located in Toronto's Big Bear Park. 
Size and Structure: The statue is 10 metres tall, weighs over 5,600 kg, and sits on a black granite armchair. 
Artist and Meaning: Created by Haida First Nation artist Dean Drever, the sculpture is designed to represent a protector and nurturer, serving as a Canadian mirror image of the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C. 



It turned into a lengthy outing as we caught the 5:30 shuttle home.


It truly was a day like this!


TUESDAY
SIGNS - Line 5 yesterday's TTC excursion


I/we had some loose plans, however, it was too damn cold!



WEDNESDAY
    Like most mornings, we enjoy sitting around and catching up on the news and reading.
I finally applied myself and worked on a recap from our last trip. 
I went to Longo's and grabbed another corned beef as it was on sale. It was cold out!
John used the updated golf simulator.
I made some soup for lunches while making dinner and watching The Traitors UK.


THURSDAY

I renewed my library card online, seems John did his this week also.
Normally we would have gone out in the morning but we decided to have lunch at home.
We decided to go to the AGO, that was a mistake! It was packed with Spring Breakers, who knew that many people would take their kids to the museum! But as someone said to me, a lot of people are not travelling to the States anymore. And with the price of fuel...

This building is going up quickly, on King St., interesting looking.
Forma (266 King St W) is the premier new construction project located immediately next to the Royal Alexandra Theatre in Toronto, offering luxury condos designed by Frank Gehry. Currently under construction, this two-tower project features a distinctive, sculpted facade and is expected to be a landmark in the Entertainment District.

It made me think of the Alzheimer building in Las Vegas and sure enough, that was designed by Frank Gehry, Canadian (Toronto)-born American architect.
We also saw his work in Dusseldorf Germany.


Cute little sculptures added to the benches outside OCAD.



Love this addition. John mentioned that he thought we had seen this before, at Harbourfront. We had seen some of Price's work before at Harbourfront!


Speaking of Frank Gehry above, he designed the staircase at the AGO.



Inside the AGO is another new piece.
 George I (2014), a relief painting by British artist Julian Opie depicting internationally acclaimed Canadian interior designer George Yabu.
This striking 3D portrait shows Yabu with a calm, introspective expression, his eyes meeting those of the viewer. Opie paints his face using three tones — light, mid and dark — casting a shadow along the right side. His signature approach to flatness and depth can be seen through his application of flat, minimal colours on a sculptural canvas that extends 40 cm from the wall. Hard-edged highlights and shadows contrast against simple black outlines, a hallmark of Opie’s characteristic style.  

Since founding their firm Yabu Pushelberg in 1980, Yabu and his partner, Glenn Pushelberg, have become icons in global design. Operating out of Toronto and New York, their studio shaped the designs of some of the world’s most beautifully designed spaces, including the Four Seasons New York Downtown, multiple Louis Vuitton boutiques and the flagship Barneys New York on Madison Avenue. In recognition of their impact, Yabu and Pushelberg were inducted into the Order of Canada in 2014. 

Opie first gained prominence in the early 1980s as part of the New British Sculpture movement, celebrated for his large-scale, boldly painted steel sculptures of everyday objects like books and chocolate bars. He often explores themes of consumer culture, identity and everyday human life in his artistic works – all of which continue to define his career and style today. He is best known for his abstractions in contemporary portraiture, where he commonly reduces his subject matter to simple lines and colour planes.


We came to see this exhibit, and because it was so crowded, we only looked at this.






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We stopped off for a coffee in a new to us, coffeeshop.

John said he would try the "Cajun" (that's what I heard) latte, so I said me too. He said it's going to be spicy, no problem, I said. Only to realize when I tasted it that he had said CAYENNE, and it was spicy!!!



Delicious lattes!



FRIDAY

What a miserable morning for the first day of spring! I put off going out until the afternoon so I made a batch of mixed fruit scones for the freezer.
I also made an apple crisp.

I went for a haircut and found a new way to get there without going outside!

Comicon is on at the convention centre so Front St. was packed!












COOKING


I shuffled the menu around, originally I was keeping the corned beef for Tuesday, but then decided to have it on Saturday and do the leftovers on Tuesday, St. Patrick's Day. But then I thought, corned beef is not traditional Irish, so let's have lamb, which is traditional, on St. Patrick's Day with a Guinness instead.

Stuff to use up
Dreaded American cheese slices - sorry, went in garbage
cheddar moldy - my fault, thought it was THOSE cheese slices
Phyllo pastry
Dumpling covers
Strawberries frozen

Saturday
L - grilled cheese and bacon
D - corned beef, boiled potatoes and fried cabbage. My Mom would have added the cabbage to the corned beef water to cook. I prefer not to lose the goodness (nutritional value) of the cabbage into the water.
Sunday
L - bacon and scrambled eggs
D - chicken quarters, (leftover boiled) roast potatoes, mashed turnips and carrots, gravy
Monday
L - out Jersey Mike's subs
D - leftover corned beef, roast potatoes and cabbage
Tuesday
L - corned beef hash with Irish soda bread
D - Guinness lamb shanks, potatoes, carrots, onions, carrots and turnips
Wednesday
L - tomato sandwiches because they need to be eaten
D - hamburger patties, gravy, mashed potatoes and beans. Good comfort food.
Thursday
L - homemade soup
D - chicken curry - coconut milk and sauce were in the freezer.
Friday
L - leftover chicken curry
D - steak, loaded baked potato






WATCHING

Sentimental Value was a no-go for us.

We decided to re-watch the Peaky Blinders series ahead of the new movie so that took up most of our viewing time.

Stone Creek Killer

I watched My Policeman  The arrival of Patrick into Marion and Tom's home triggers the exploration of seismic events from 40 years previously. Well, that was depressing.



READING


Tom mentioned a photographer I had never heard of, Saul Leiter. I couldn't find anything about him/photographs at the library. But I did find a website dedicated to his work.
If you would like a quick overview of his work, here is a video on YouTube.


I also read a great post by DVArtist, Nicole, about an incredible woman, Margaret Chung!

I really didn't read much at all. I am still reading a Mark Billingham book.










Women's History Month

  She began life by ending someone else's. Not by choice — she was eleven days old. But Mary Wollstonecraft Godwin came into the world o...